India Glossary of Life Skills

Compassion

Compassion is our ability to feel for others when they are in pain and be motivated to take action to relieve their suffering. It includes five essential elements - recognizing other people's pain, accepting that human suffering is universal, feeling for the sufferer, tolerating the discomfort it causes to us without being judgmental and feeling motivated to help. It includes the aspect of Global Compassion which refers to compassion felt toward others regardless of their relationship with us, their status, background, membership to any group, and overall circumstances.

Compassion is an enduring skill that is associated with a range of positive attitudes and behaviours towards self, others and humanity as a whole. It is kindness and empathy extended beyond our own people thereby contributing to prosocial behaviour, conflict resolution and peacekeeping at a global level.

Compassion in Action The person will be able to:

  • Recognize others' feelings and emotions in particular situations.
  • Identify their own feelings and emotions as they witness or hear about another person's pain, suffering, hardships and misfortunes.
  • Recognize how they feel when they hear about a person's or a group's suffering who is not related to them.
  • Engage in simple acts of kindness on a day to day basis with people within their circle, as well as with strangers and animals.
  • Come up with ways in which they can reach out and help others.
  • Identify and validate people's experiences across gender. race, ethnicity, geographical locations, religion, socio-economic strata etc. and show their readiness to help.
  • Demonstrate a humane approach towards global problems.
  • Commit to causes and put together resources in order to mobilize help.

Decision Making

Decision Making is the ability to choose between two or more courses of action. It is the ability to identify and analyze the implications and consequences of our decisions. It is a process of making thoughtful, constructive and responsible choices about personal behaviour related to health, relationships, career and lifestyle, considering existing social, ethical and safety norms, in varied conditions. It includes being able to make decisions independently and taking responsibility for our actions.

This key skill when imbibed at a young age contributes to a feeling of autonomy and also a sense of fulfilment. Decision Making is also proven to positively impact the attitude and effort we put into any task.

Decision Making in Action The person will be able to :

  • make informed decisions based on their own experience and learning.
  • understand and evaluate the consequences of their decisions.
  • take personal responsibility for the consequences of their decisions.
  • consider others' needs while making decisions.
  • evaluate the influence of social norms and authority on personal decision making.
  • apply ethical reasoning while making decisions.
  • make responsible decisions with respect to interpersonal and group relationships.
  • analyse how present decision making affects college and career choices.
  • evaluate the influence of personal biases and discrimination on personal decision making.
  • identify and evaluate strategies to resist pressure to engage in unsafe or unethical activities.
  • improve study habits and academic performance through responsible decision making skills.

Mastery Orientation

Mastery Orientation refers to our approach towards achievement where the focus is on achieving mastery of a task with an emphasis on learning and improvement on self-set standards, and acquiring new skills. It arises from the belief that we have control over factors related to our learning, that hard work and effort pays off, and that we have or can acquire strategies that will help us learn. With this attitude we are more likely to enjoy and seek challenges, persist in the face of obstacles, and view our failures as due to inadequate effort or poor strategy rather than lack of ability.

Research says that Mastery Orientation is highly adaptive and carries many positive qualities, including perseverance, seeking out challenges and a desire to learn.

Mastery Orientation in Action The person will be able to:

  • engage in activities that will increase their knowledge and learning.
  • find satisfaction in just learning without being influenced by external performance indicators such as grades.
  • learn from their errors.
  • seek help when necessary.
  • change learning strategies when they don’t work.
  • focus on improving their personal or professional competence
  • judge their performance based on standards of self-improvement and progress.
  • demonstrate a sense of purpose and persist towards goals despite challenges.
  • open to taking on challenging or unfamiliar learning tasks.
  • focus on achieving mastery even in the absence of external validation or reward
  • view success in terms of continuous improvement and learning.

Media Literacy

Media Literacy is the ability to critically understand, analyse and interpret the media content available to us, in both print and electronic forms. It includes the ability to access, use and communicate media content in a variety of forms, as well as understand different kinds of media. This ability equips us to use the media content ethically, generate new content and as well as create a participatory culture for everybody to contribute to the new content.

Media Literacy as a skill supports us to critically engage with information presented by the media, understand how to identify and deal with fake news, as well as be aware of the effects of media on people.

Media Literacy in Action The person will be able to:

  • Use various media tools to access information - audio, image or other data.
  • Use different search engines and databases to find the data that is needed.
  • Question the media content.
  • Examine the purpose for which the media content was created and shared.
  • Examine the implicit meaning and purpose of the content as perceived by the reader.
  • Recognise harmful content and protect themselves from the same.
  • Evaluate the media content and ascertain whether the content complies to ethical standards.
  • Evaluate the possible consequences of sharing media content that contains information or images that belong to other people and require permission to share.
  • Evaluated the possible consequences of sharing media content that contains information or images that might be disrespectful of marginalised peoples and cultures.
  • Use media tools to arrange activities such as digital campaigns, discussion forums and blogs in order to find a solution to problems or generate social sensitivity around a particular issue.

Relationship Management

Relationship Management is the ability to form and maintain healthy, meaningful and rewarding relationships with diverse individuals and groups in both our personal as well as professional domains. It is an important leadership skill and includes the ability to have clear and assertive communication, be honest in our expression of views and emotions, have warm interactions with our family, friends, community, colleagues etc., offer honest and constructive feedback, resist various forms of social pressure and negotiate interpersonal conflicts in mutually beneficial ways. This skill includes both - being aware of our own emotions as well as being considerate of others' emotions, as we navigate through various social interactions.

Relationship Management skills help us form deeper and richer connections with others in all areas of our life.

Relationship Management in Action The person will be able to:

  • demonstrate good listening skills in daily interactions with friends, peers, teachers, family etc.
  • communicate clearly and assertively in their day-to-day interactions with others.
  • try out different ways to help out their friends and classmates.
  • seek and offer help when required.
  • express and share their emotions in an open and honest way with their friends, family, etc.
  • work cooperatively and effectively in groups.
  • form teams, influence team-members and boost team morale.
  • resist and manage peer pressure in an effective manner.
  • negotiate conflicts and navigate difficult social situations effectively.

Respecting Diversity

Respecting Diversity is the ability to recognise, understand, accept and demonstrate respect towards individuals and groups that might be different from us in terms of age, gender, sexuality, religion, caste, economic background, political beliefs, culture etc. This skill focuses on valuing and celebrating differences and making our personal and professional lives richer with varied experiences and perspectives. This skill also includes the ability to stay curious, learn continuously, stay humble and accept our own biases and limitations.

Respecting Diversity is vital in today's disparate yet interconnected world in order to have respectful personal and professional interactions, form deeper connections and work towards more inclusive and sustainable ways of living and thriving together.

Respecting Diversity in Action The person will be able to:

  • Recognise similarities and differences between themselves and others on various facets of life.
  • Demonstrate respect and equality in their interactions with people who are different from them in both personal and professional lives.
  • Make friends from diverse communities and social identities.
  • Form or be a part of groups or teams that are diverse in nature and work towards common goals.
  • Exercise mindfulness and sensitivity when interacting with people or groups they are unfamiliar with.
  • Engage in experiences that offer opportunities to learn about and form connections with diverse groups and communities.
  • Judge others’ ability or worth based on their potential and skills, rather than their socio-cultural identity and beliefs.
  • Challenge commonly accepted biases and stereotypes and discourage humour and sarcasm stemming from community or social identities.
  • Devise ways of supporting individuals and groups from vulnerable sections.

Self-Awareness

Self-Awareness is the ability to see ourselves clearly and objectively through reflection and introspection. It includes recognition of ourselves, our context, our character, our strengths and weaknesses, our values and beliefs, likes and dislikes, dreams and aspirations, etc., contributing towards our sense of identity. It is the ability to realise when there is contradiction between our aspirations, abilities and values. It is the ability to recognise our feelings and emotions and how they influence our decisions and behaviour.

Self-Awareness helps us recognise when we are stressed or under pressure. It allows us to see things from the perspective of others, practice self-control, work creatively and productively, and experience pride in ourselves and our work thus contributing to an overall sense of confidence and optimism.

Self-Awareness in Action The person will be able to:

  • Understand their emotions.
  • Accurately label emotions and recognise how they are linked to behaviour.
  • Analyze how thoughts affect decision making and responsible behaviour.
  • Identify their personal strengths and weaknesses.
  • Develop personal skills and interests they desire to have.
  • Identify their values and beliefs.
  • Analyse how personal qualities and values influence choices and successes.
  • Accept themselves with a sense of optimism about personal abilities and skills.
  • Recognise the different roles they play in the context of age, gender, family, community and school/working place.
  • Recognise their rights and duties as individuals and their responsibility towards themselves and society.

Self-Management

Self-Management is the ability to regulate our emotions, thoughts and behaviours effectively in different situations. This includes managing stress, delaying gratification, keeping ourselves otivated and setting and working towards personal, academic and career goals. This skill also includes managing our time effectively in response to current or changing circumstances.

Self-Management helps in all domains of life and can be an important determinant of employment and life success and overall well-being.

Self-Management in Action The person will be able to:

  • Recognize how thoughts, emotions and behaviour are linked to personal well-being.
  • Devise ways of managing personal well-being and achievement of goals.
  • Find ways of expressing difficult emotions.
  • Identify sources of support in their school, family and community that can offer timely help and guidance.
  • Identify resources within themselves which can be accessed in adverse and upsetting situations. Identify sources of stress and then devise healthy and effective ways of responding to them.
  • Consider time as an important factor whenever they plan activities and factor for unexpected situations or delays.
  • Practise punctuality in their day-to-day lives and demonstrate other ways in which they can value their own as well as others' time.
  • Set realistic and achievable goals for themselves and measure progress on a regular basis.
  • Show responsibility towards their physical health by being mindful of and making appropriate choices regarding their habits, routine and overall lifestyle.
  • Resist the impulse to seize a short-term reward in preference to a more valuable long-term benefit.

Social Awareness

Social Awareness is the ability to form connections and work with people from diverse backgrounds in terms of religion, caste, gender, socio-economic strata, geographical location etc. It is the ability to understand, empathise and accept people and practices that are different from our own. It is also the ability to recognise and exercise our rights and duties as responsible citizens.

Social Awareness includes being sensitive to local and global environmental concerns, being aware of and involved in addressing social issues, respecting and protecting the rights of others, especially those of vulnerable populations (women, children, elderly, people with disabilities, economically and socially marginalised communities etc.), thus contributing to the collective well-being of society.

Social Awareness in Action The person will be able to:

  • Recognise ways in which they and their peers are similar and different.
  • Express interest in getting to know about their friends' native language and cultural practices.
  • Articulate how a diverse set of friends or members in a team enhances their perspective and life in general.
  • Determine the commonalities amongst diverse people - their basic needs, emotions, expectations from others etc.
  • Analyze their community's or neighbourhood's needs/problems and put together a plan to address those.
  • Recognise the vulnerabilities of others and be willing to accept, protect and even help, if needed.
  • Show awareness of specific social causes, take a stance and use concrete steps towards addressing them.
  • Get involved in organizations and civic bodies that help and contribute towards various social and environmental causes.